How to Tell if a Girl Likes You

Read more about subtle signs she likes you here.

Clearly, the attraction between humans is very complex and multi-dimensional. These 17 signs of a girl’s affection are very common, but there is still a chance that you won’t witness them even after learning that a girl likes you. Always stay alert to all kinds of signs and unusual behavior from a girl you are interested in, and a healthy, happy relationship won’t keep you waiting.

Girls aren’t like guys. We’re blatant and direct, but they’re very indirect and subtle and that’s expressed to the n’th degree when it comes to dating. When they’re into us they’ll rarely be upfront about it because it’s just not how they operate, so what they will do is drop tiny hints that they expect us to pick up on but we usually don’t. Look, we’re not saying that you’re not Chris Rock, it’s just… OK, we are saying that.

It could mean she’s attracted to you and wants to feel closer to you both physically and mentally. So if you get an excuse from a woman when you ask her on a date, and she doesn’t provide an alternative time for the date, it’s almost certain she’s not interested.

That’s how important it is to them to look a certain way and that’s also why you should take real notice of any interest they outwardly show you. There are exceptions to this though, say if a post is so amazing or funny that it demands a like or if she knows for a fact that she won’t look like she’s dropping you hints by liking it. That’s why girls will often feel more comfortable liking pics of guys with their girlfriends, children, or parents. In those situations they think that liking a post like that won’t imply that they’re into the guy and trying to send him a slutty message.

There are many reasons why men are constantly looking for signs a girl likes you. Some simply want to know the girl’s psyche better, while others are tired of waiting for the girls to make the first move and want to know who is a good candidate for being their girlfriend.

• Are family and friends are always making jokes that we are dating cause we are almost always together 24 hours of the day.
• When a guy is talking to a girl that he likes, he would probably start sweating or struggling with words.
• I’ll answer questions if any guy wants more help or information when trying to decide if a girl likes you (but not necessarily reply to people who just leave general comments).
• She always likes to mess with me.

Reading How Her Friends React to You

And other stuff. I’m already dating someone, and I like my best friend. This is the second time and last time I chose the other person he called me a slut and now stares at me when he sees me, and the person I was dating broke up with me because of trust issues in a relationship with me. Now I have a crush on her and I don’t even like my gf in that way and she is hardcore into me and idk what to do because she has been broken up with so many times.

Chances are that you have the odd guffaw-inducer in your repertoire, “But if she’s laughing long and loudly at all your jokes, especially if you have the sneaking suspicion that they’re not really as funny as all that, she may be trying to show you that you’ve got her attention, and she’s receptive to it,” suggests Dr. Spelman. “It’s the act of adjusting your body language – your movements, speech and mannerisms – to match the other person’s,” describes Dr. Becky Spelman, a psychologist and cognitive behavioral therapist at the Private Therapy Clinic in London.

If a girl calls you “hot” or “sexy,” you can take her at her word. On the other hand, if she uses terms like “attractive” or “good looking” or even “cute” to describe you — especially in a clinical, objective tone — she’s probably just not feeling it.

Maybe she’s more of a casual girl, but if she wants to get your attention, she’ll put more effort into her outfit. She will always dress to impress. And that person that she wants to impress might be you. Does she get jealous when she sees you talking to other girls?

Does she ask questions about these other women? Does she seem subtly intrigued, invested, possibly even envious? Women tend to be interested in the dating lives and history of the men they like.